{"id":5428,"date":"2016-07-06T14:40:13","date_gmt":"2016-07-06T12:40:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/en\/?p=5428"},"modified":"2020-01-14T21:53:19","modified_gmt":"2020-01-14T20:53:19","slug":"lost-appreciation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/en\/lost-appreciation\/","title":{"rendered":"lost appreciation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Since we know about ourselves, that we are basically appreciative, it\u00b4s supposedly always the other who does not act appreciatively. We feel entitled to not be appreciative to this person, because we have experienced a certain behavior of them as hurtful or otherwise negatively.<br \/>\nThis cause-effect-thinking prevents us from having contact to our freedom and therefore our responsibility for appreciation.<br \/>\nWe do not need to call the behavior \u201cgood\u201d in order to stay in appreciation. No one prevents us from assuming that the other<br \/>\n&#8211; could not have meant it this way<br \/>\n&#8211; himself feels insecure and seeks for a quick or convenient solution<br \/>\n&#8211; basically is a good person.<br \/>\nUnreflected we believe that \u2013 with this approach \u2013 we lose our interests and our dignity. However, those who experience it by someone else, feel <!--more-->the greatness and dignity that goes with it, and the constructive effect.<br \/>\nBefore you plan it for the next time with moral ambition, it&#8217;s worth to look behind your own scenes with understanding:<\/p>\n<p>What do you fear \u2013 in a felt sense &#8211; to lose if you remain in appreciation?<br \/>\nWhat would have to happen for you before you go in this greatness?<\/p>\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-5428\" data-postid=\"5428\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-5428 themify_builder themify_builder_front\">\n\n\t<\/div>\n<!-- \/themify_builder_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since we know about ourselves, that we are basically appreciative, it\u00b4s supposedly always the other who does not act appreciatively. We feel entitled to not be appreciative to this person, because we have experienced a certain behavior of them as hurtful or otherwise negatively. 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