{"id":798,"date":"2010-07-25T14:54:30","date_gmt":"2010-07-25T12:54:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/konflikt\/needs"},"modified":"2015-08-26T16:55:40","modified_gmt":"2015-08-26T14:55:40","slug":"needs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/en\/needs\/","title":{"rendered":"needs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We can have a dispute, an argument, a disagreement and being fine with it. If there is none of my needs involved, one could have a conflict with me \u2013 without me being distressed. If I am in distress, out of my center, not in inner peace, a need is affected. When we take this need and bring it into the conflict clarification, we enable our conflict partner to see, respect and even to fulfill this need.<\/p>\n<p>When I am in distress,<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If a colleague does not like me, then it might be about my need for harmony and respect or about my need to be liked by everyone.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If my boss\/colleague\/partner accuses me of not having carried out a task, then it might be about my need to be considered as reliable or about my need to be seen in my effort for all the other tasks or about my need for justice, etc.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 If someone hurries ahead in \u00a0a meeting, it might be about my need for considerateness and integration.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 etc.<\/p>\n<p>Which need is involved in your conflict case?<\/p>\n<p>Do you really want to get this need fulfilled by your conflict partner?<\/p>\n<p>If so, how could you express it?<\/p>\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-798\" data-postid=\"798\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-798 themify_builder themify_builder_front\">\n\n\t<\/div>\n<!-- \/themify_builder_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We can have a dispute, an argument, a disagreement and being fine with it. 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