{"id":822,"date":"2010-12-27T16:00:21","date_gmt":"2010-12-27T15:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/aktuelle-not\/old-feelings"},"modified":"2015-08-26T16:55:39","modified_gmt":"2015-08-26T14:55:39","slug":"old-feelings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/en\/old-feelings\/","title":{"rendered":"old feelings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Old feelings<\/p>\n<p>Being in a difficult situation we are mostly not just confronted with the actual difficulty but also \u00a0sub-consciously linked with old experiences, which trigger a whole storage of old emotions. This volume is almost insolvable for us and puts a lot of strain on the current situation. If \u2013 for example \u2013 we had never experienced rejection, we would respond to a current \u201c no, I don\u00b4t want to meet you\u201d with the question \u201cwhy not?\u201d. But the old experiences come up immediately and we react with the entire emotional burden of the past and feel aggrieved, offended, hurt, etc.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>To repress the burden of the past would be counterproductive. But in an actual case it is worth to see, what really belongs to the current situation. And this is my question for you:<\/p>\n<p>In case, you had never ever experienced something like this, how would you \u2013 as a \u201cnewcomer in such situations\u201d \u2013 react?<\/p>\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-822\" data-postid=\"822\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-822 themify_builder themify_builder_front\">\n\n\t<\/div>\n<!-- \/themify_builder_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Old feelings Being in a difficult situation we are mostly not just confronted with the actual difficulty but also \u00a0sub-consciously linked with old experiences, which trigger a whole storage of old emotions. This volume is almost insolvable for us and puts a lot of strain on the current situation. 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