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This is only ever possible, if you give yourself the inner allowance to do so and are ready to confront; which is sometimes blocked by an unreflected maxim of harmony. Thus,<!--more--> time to reflect:<\/p>\n<p>Which of your borders gets violated sometimes?<\/p>\n<p>What is the thought that keeps yourself away from reacting immediately \u2013 or even later \u2013 and showing your border?<\/p>\n<p>How would you formulate it in one sentence, if you really allow yourself the border protection?<\/p>\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-850\" data-postid=\"850\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-850 themify_builder themify_builder_front\">\n\n\t<\/div>\n<!-- \/themify_builder_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Border violations are one of the elementary causes for emotional conflicts. They happen physically, e.g. by getting touched without allowance, but even more in verbal forms, ranging from interferences in personal affairs, getting a comment in the office about private stuff up to getting instructed \u2013 you name them. 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