{"id":924,"date":"2013-06-15T14:10:42","date_gmt":"2013-06-15T12:10:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/lebensfuehrung\/tedious"},"modified":"2020-01-14T21:41:29","modified_gmt":"2020-01-14T20:41:29","slug":"tedious","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.weber-fuerst.com\/en\/tedious\/","title":{"rendered":"tedious"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Everything that does not arise from or address the true self, is boring in the long run. In order to understand this we need to differentiate true and false self: The false self is the ego, which defines itself in a set way, that wants to be a personality, pursues an image and thus creates own neediness. The resulting patterns are for oneself and for others in the long run tedious, if not annoying and frustrating. The false self wants e.g. to stay and look young and therefore tries to adapt a juvenile language and a youthful appearance. 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