It is said that the largest part of the problem lies in the rejection of what is; not in what is. We have good reasons for not liking, what is. However, the attitude of rejecting reality is a reaction of the ego, an expression of our will. The deeper will, that of the true self, does not fight against something that can not be changed, but accepts the situation and considers flexibly the opportunities to lead to a better situation. It is a respectful, accepting, humble and at the same time realistic attitude that allows actions, wiser, more graceful actions.
Do you know the false will?
What does it want to achieve for you?
What does it do, if they follow it?
What thought could help you to go into the true will?