neediness

Let’s have a look at what you need in a current emergency situation. It’s not always about physical survival, but often about external predicaments that cause an emotional need, such as feeling safe, feeling respected, wanting to safeguard the own value, healing a heartache. The own neediness feels to be then quiet high. We usually tend to want healing by third parties and external circumstances, and by that we feel powerless and thereby even the more needy.
What if you could heal yourself in this need to a great extend?
What would you say to yourself?
How would you act?
Or would you rather wait for the healing from external sources?
And: To what percentage is your neediness currently already healed? Are you actually needy 100%?