the mature consultant

When we are in trouble, we all do not make it to the optimum of our competence. We are emotionally troubled and often reset into states in which we were more young, powerless, inexperienced and less confident than we are now. Therefore, let us try to use a simple change of perspective: Imagine a wise, confident, serene and mature person seeing you truely in your difficulty. When you can see the image of that person clearly, ask yourself the following questions:
What would that person say?

• In General.
• About the true causes.
• As helpful guidance.